Keeping Commitments

How do you know if you are really investing 100% into your relationship and keeping commitments?  Obviously, if it were a financial investment and you had $100 and you put it all in, you would conclude that you are 100% invested.  Surely 100% invested must mean keeping commitments.  Now, image that your investment goes through…

Defining Family Identity

Defining Family Identity “Todd, I want to invite your son to play for me on the All Star Team.” That is how the phone call started and it sounded great.  I was proud of my son and his dedication, sacrifice, and performance.  I was excited to see him play with other similarly focused and competitive…

Pass ’em

It was about this time of year, 25 years ago. Some friends and I were driving home from a movie. There was a car in front of us and my friends shouted “pass ‘em”. The road was dangerous and my resistance was weak. They shouted again, “pass ‘em or you’re not a man”. Just this…